Resistance to Social Networking is Futile

The growth of social networking over the last decade has been staggering. Social networking on the Internet is not new, but Facebook has become the Google of social networking sites. Friendster started the trend. Orkut was interesting for 3 months, and Myspace grew exponentially, only to turn in to a e-trailer park.

There are so many use cases for Facebook, because its really a combination of a variety of existing Internet sites in one portal. Whether you want to keep up with family, close friends, co-workers, old classmates, or distant relatives Facebook is the Swiss army knife of social networking.

Once people “see the light” with social networking, they instantly start evangelizing. Its really interesting to hear people’s excuses for not joining Facebook. “Why do I need to join Facebook?” “I don’t care what Ed is having for lunch.” “I talk to all the people I want to via phone and e-mail.” “I find it nosy!” “I can’t control it!”

You can either join the social networking party, or look like luddite. In a few years, people who don’t use social networking will look as obsolete as people who don’t use e-mail. You can resist it all you want, but its only a matter of time.

Social networking is not a necessary technology. By its nature, technology is inherently unnecessary. Human beings only need food, water, and basic shelter, everything else is unnecessary.

GPS? Computers? Ipods? Cell phones? TV? Radio? Air conditioning? Automobiles? Trains? Deodorant? Horses? Electricity? Plumbing? Clothing? Fire?

There is not much in life that is truly necessary. So they next time you’re looking to justify not using a new technology, find a better excuse.


  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1075704787 Eric Donnelly

    It’s an interesting point. The few friends I have that have not so far jumped on the social networking train cite the lack of privacy and such as the main reasons for not engaging online. I find this point silly due to the privacy and security features in place. Recently at a holiday party I was criticized for texting during the party as if I was some sort of nerd soldering a circuit board or something.
    These days you either adapt or just paint yourself into a corner in terms of not keeping up w/ social trends and the internet being an honest to goodness equal w/ a phone call, paper letter or face to face meeting. It is what it is.

  • http://alexvalentine.org asv

    @Eric

    Agreed, the privacy concerns are valid, but pretty much solved with current features in place.

    People are resistant to new tech. 8 years ago, texting was just something Japanese schoolgirls did. Now grandpa does it.

  • JayZee

    Society is overrated and social networking superfluous. To put it mildly.

  • http://alexvalentine.org asv

    JayZee = my previous Luddite manager.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1075704787 Eric Donnelly

    I wonder where replying to a blog falls on “jayzee’s” list.